Ready To NavigateThe Break After Heartbreak But Don't Know Where To Begin?
 If you'd like to have me as your personal guide, on your heart sabbatical, don't wait!  We start July 19th!

Led By A Psychotherapist Specializing in Healing Trauma After Toxic Relationships.

Ready To Stop Feeling Stuck, Hurt, Lonely, and Confused?

If you're ready to shift from
 hurting to healingso that you can cultivate amazing relationships, I can help.
If you're ready to shift from hurting to healing 
so that you can end the cycle of painful relationships, I can help.

Led By A Psychotherapist Specializing in Healing Trauma After Toxic Relationships.

Ready To Stop Feeling Stuck, Hurt, Lonely, And Confused?

If you're ready to shift 
from hurting to healing 
so that you can end the cycle of 
painful relationships, I can help.


I remember the feelings all too well. 

The tight knot in my stomach every time my phone pinged, hoping it was him. 

Nights spent wide awake, replaying conversations, obsessing over 
what I could have said or done differently. 

I was always the one loving more, investing more, giving more, 
trying to keep the peace and the flame alive. 

The fear of abandonment felt like a constant ghost hovering in the shadows.

And here's the real kicker - I didn't like him as a person, 
yet, I found myself unable to let go, trapped in a cycle of emotional dependency, accepting the bare minimum- because I'd made him my entire world.

In those moments, I felt like I was losing myself. 

A bitter feeling of not being good enough 
coupled with the fear he would leave seeped into my bones
 paralyzing any thoughts I had of leaving. 

I was stuck, hurt, and utterly confused.

It was in these painful, chaotic moments 
that i had an epiphany...


It hit me like a thunderbolt - this painful cycle of fear, insecurities, and unhealthy attachments wasn't limited to my love life. 

It was weaving its dark thread into my friendships, turning them into unbalanced, draining bonds. 

It was in the office, where I'd accept disrespect, constantly pushing myself too hard for approval. It was even with my family, where I'd morph into a 
people-pleaser just to feel accepted.

Suddenly, it was clear. The issue wasn't the people around me as much as it was this destructive pattern I was trapped in. 

That revelation was my turning point. I realized I had the power to break this cycle, to heal, and to cultivate healthier relationships. 

This was where my journey to self-empowerment began.

That's when I realized that
healing doesn't come from 
a change of partner. 

It comes from a change within. 

It was time to stop playing the savior to everyone but myself.

This realization set off a chain reaction, like falling dominoes, forcing me to confront my fears, my insecurities, and my trauma.

I sought help to understand
 the roots of my pain.

That's when I realized that
healing doesn't come from 
a change of partner. 

It comes from a change within. 

It was time to stop playing the savior to everyone but myself.

This realization set off a chain reaction, like falling dominoes, forcing me to confront my fears, my insecurities, and my trauma.

I sought help to understand
 the roots of my pain.

And you know what?
 It worked. 


It was like swapping my daily diet of self-doubt for a helping of self-worth. 

No longer obsessing over every text he didn't send 
or losing sleep over arguments that happened eons ago. 

I stopped being the martyr, the 'fixer' in every relationship, 
and started setting boundaries that were respected. 

I kissed the fear of abandonment goodbye 
and embraced the joy of my own company.

Can you imagine trading in the endless cycle of 
replaying old arguments for peaceful sleep? 

Can you picture waking up to a day where 
you're not haunted by the ghost of your ex? 

Or how about this – dating someone you genuinely like, 
and not just because you're terrified of being alone?

Envision yourself entering relationships, not fueled by anxiety and fear, 
but from a place of love, respect, and true connection. 

See yourself as the main character in your own life, 
no longer accepting the bare minimum 
but commanding the respect and love you deserve.

And that dream where you are enough just as you are, 
without the need to save or fix anyone else? 

That becomes your everyday reality.

That's where the Inner Circle comes in. 


"...This is the NETFLIX for healing after toxic relationships!"

"By far, your are the only therapist that totally nails why we do what we do while giving us the tools to truly become introspective and heal. With everything I have, thank you! Since following you on Instagram 1 year ago you have completely changed my life!" MB

"Hey Ginger, I really wanted to express my appreciation for your content. Almost every post you make resonates so highly with me, and has helped me heal so much. I recently joined your inner circle membership and am super impressed by the high quality of your content. Its insightful and super actionable, and gives me so much comfort. I'm sure you hear this a lot but your work really makes me feel seen. Keep doing what you're doing - it's such good, healing work!
Thank you a million!"



"Hello! just signed up for The Inner Circle, I am 3 mins in to the first video on obsessive thoughts. WOW I feel so seen and understood and not so alone because obviously enough people feel this way for there to be a master class. I was starting to get really dark but this makes me feel like there is hope and that I'm not crazy!!
Thank you!!!!!"

"I have been going to a therapist for almost a year now but I attribute Gingers work and this group of women to the vast majority of my healing" 

"Y'all you NEED THIS PROGRAM. It will CHANGE YOUR LIFE. I am writing this as someone who decided I would just sit and watch bc I'm "better now" but NOPE I was not better enough. I just fell for the same old fucking trap bc it came in different packaging, and in retrospect ALL of Ginger's words and sayings filled my mind and I was like "DAMMIT if I'd just done the whole Inner Circle Program the first time, I could have avoided this! Truly."




This powerful program was born out of my own healing journey as well as the work I've done with my own psychotherapy clients healing after painful relationships. 

It's designed to take you from your lowest lows to your highest highs, navigating the healing journey with a proven framework, empathy, and compassion.

We'll show you how to...


Learn how to replace forest-fire love with a slow, steady appreciation of your worth, so you don't rush into relationships head-first. We give you the blueprint in our Breaking Premature Attachment In Relationships masterclass.

Rediscover your strength, so that you can love with all your heart, but not lose yourself in the process. This journey begins in The Art of Self-Love and Boundaries masterclass.

Find the courage to acknowledge when a relationship isn't serving you - and the strength to walk away, even when your heart is whispering 'stay.' We'll guide you through this in the Healing Your Self-Concept After A Painful Relationship masterclass.

Cut through the haze of obsessive thoughts and reactive emotions to find a place of calm understanding, where you'll respond, not react. We'll take you through this shift in the Shifting from Survival Mode to Thriving Relationships masterclass.

Kick abandonment fears to the curb and embrace your worth, knowing that you are enough - just as you are. You'll get the keys to this mindset shift in the Overcoming Toxic Shame masterclass.

Release the grip of the past and stop replaying old arguments in your head - instead, use that energy to write your new love story. We open up this perspective in the Finding Closure After Heartbreak masterclass.

Ditch the 'savior' cape and hang up the 'fixer' hat. Start nurturing yourself first and foremost, instead of pouring all your energy into fixing others. We delve into this transformation in the Healing The Savior/Fixer Complex masterclass.

Join us, and let's start over together so that you can radiate confidence and find love that loves you back. It all begins in the Navigating Hermit Mode After A Breakup masterclass.

Hey there, I'm Ginger Dean, psychotherapist, author, and founder of Loving Me After We. 

I've walked the path you're on - and even wrote a book about it!

Loving Me After We was born out of this journey, a promise I made to God: If he would help me pull myself out of this emotional rut, I'd devote my life to helping others do the same.

Today, we're the leading community for women healing from toxic relationships, with over 15,000 enrollments who trusted us to guide their healing journey.

Our 50+ masterclasses aren't just a "good to know" - they're a "need to experience." Each one is like a personal empowerment toolkit, aimed at smashing those old, negative habits that have been throwing wrenches in our relationships.

Our live workshops? They're like your cozy corner cafe - a safe, welcoming place for a monthly check-in where you can map out your strengths, get real about your weak spots, and receive some in-the-moment feedback on your healing journey.

Our success path is priceless. It's all about healing at your own speed. Sure, we've got a roadmap to success, but this isn't a race - you can take your sweet time and explore at your own pace.

I've had the honor of working with a pretty diverse group - from survivors of childhood abuse, substance misuse, domestic violence, to veterans, top execs, and government officials. Trust me when I say, I get the multifaceted impact of trauma.

My job? To save you a seat on the years-long therapy train and speed up your healing journey. Let me share my insights, so you can break the cycle of painful relationships and create the kind of love life that makes you feel amazing.

I've been on both sides - the one healing and the one helping others heal. Now, I'm using my story to help thousands of women across the globe on their healing journey.

And speaking from personal experience, joining this journey will be the best call you've ever made. It sure was for me.


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What Members Say:

INNER CIRCLE MEMBER

Hi Ginger, I want to share since joining the Inner, I catch myself asking what's the thought/feeling in between x & x. I receive so much clarity from this, & respond instead or react. You often asked others this in the live calls I've replayed. Hope you understand what I mean, haha.

INNER CIRCLE MEMBER

I'm honestly in tears of joy in finally understanding myself more deeply with this course Thank u!!! 
Just things click and I'm getting a lot of clarity for everything. I know now why if feels to be empowered and love myself and what I see here and in the program shows me how freaking far I've come! And areas I can keep loving and accepting myself more. And I can finally feel feelings lol

INNER CIRCLE MEMBER

Hello! just signed up for The Inner Circle, I am 3 mins in to the first video on obsessive thoughts. WOW I feel so seen and understood and not so alone because obviously enough people feel this way for there to be a master class. I was starting to get really dark but this makes me feel like there is hope and that I'm not crazy!! Thank you!!!!!

INNER CIRCLE MEMBER

I recently joined your inner circle membership and am super impressed by the high quality of your content. Its insightful and super actionable, and gives me so much comfort. I'm sure you hear this a lot but your work really makes me feel seen. Keep doing what you're doing - it's such good, healing work! Thank you a million!

INNER CIRCLE MEMBER

I recently joined your inner circle membership and am super impressed by the high quality of your content. Its insightful and super actionable, and gives me so much comfort. I'm sure you hear this a lot but your work really makes me feel seen. Keep doing what you're doing - it's such good, healing work! Thank you a million!

INNER CIRCLE MEMBER

She puts her all into everyone of her clients. I love that she walks with you on your journey, she won't abandon you or your process. Step up and commit to yourself and walk how her magic allows you to fully embody yours! I'm gushing but I love this woman so much!

INNER CIRCLE MEMBER

Like a midwife you were there and you get it! You really do get it! With your help, I birthed this new woman looking at me every morning and I love her so much! It brings tears to my eyes just saying that but it's true.

Our holistic approach means Not only will healing Painful Relationship Patterns improve your love life, but it will also have a positive impact on other areas of your life as well.


In the workplace, 
you'll be better equipped to set boundaries, assert yourself, 
and even ask for a raise or start that business with confidence. 

With family members, 
you'll learn not to personalize their behavior 
and recognize generational trauma patterns so that you can break the cycle. 

In friendships, 
you'll become skilled at setting boundaries and pinpointing harmful behavior, 
ensuring that you surround yourself with supportive and nurturing connections. 

Lastly, you'll feel empowered to speak up for your needs
and create amazing relationships that love and support you back!

Your journey towards healing doesn't have to be a lonely or daunting one. 

Picture yourself a year from now, in control of your narrative, radiating self-love and peace. 

This is not just a dream, it's a reachable reality with the Inner Circle. 

Here's to the dawn of your best self, here's to the beautiful love affair with yourself that awaits. 

Here's what you get when you sign up:

* No commitments,  join any time and cancel when you're ready
* Access on all your devices from anywhere in the world, even on mobile 
*Relationship status doesn't matter


MONTHLY Live Workshops with LIVE Q/A ($497 value)

With our live workshops, you'll have a safe space for real-time feedback on your progress, 
ensuring you're able to gain clarity and make adjustments as needed in order to stay on track in your healing journey.

NEW MASTERCLASS DELIVERED EVERY MONTH ($297 VALUE)

The new monthly masterclass deliveries with workbooks + journal prompts encourage 
deep self-reflection and cultivate a regular personal growth routine, enabling you to identify hindering patterns 
while selecting tools that best resonate, customizing your healing path to fit your unique situation.


DIVE IN FROM ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD FROM ANY DEVICE
 WITH AN INTERNET CONNECTION ($12,177 VALUE)

Instant and on demand access to hundreds of hours of pre-recorded masterclasses, recorded workshop calls, 
and workbooks ensures that you'll always have a supportive resource to turn to, 
providing guidance and inspiration as you navigate the ups and downs of your healing journey.  
Listen on the go, in your car or hunker down during self-care Sunday.


SAFE AND PRIVATE + COMMUNITY OF WOMEN READY TO SUPPORT YOU

Healing happens in community and being part of this safe and private community means you'll be
 surrounded by women (from all over the world regardless of relationship status) who are also committed to emotional growth and self-awareness motivating you to become the best version of yourself.


BONUS: BOOK CLUB SELECTIONS

Our book selections for each masterclass helps deepen your understanding of the topics discussed
so that you can apply the lessons and implement what you're learning and experience the lasting transformation you really want.


BONUS:  GUEST EXPERTS ($3582 VALUE)

Access to masterclasses taught by guest experts ensures you receive a variety of perspectives and approaches, which means you can cultivate a healing path that resonates most with your specific healing journey.


STATE OF THE ART MEMBERSHIP PLATFORM

Search Masterclass + Live Workshop transcripts: 
Want to watch all the content discussed around obsessive thoughts?
You have the ability to search any word (not just masterclass topics) mentioned in masterclasses or live workshops and jump right to the exact minute mark where it starts without wasting time wading through all of the videos.

On-the-Go Transcripts: 
Download transcripts and follow along even when you can't listen or watch the content 
keeping you connected no matter where you are.

IMMEDIATE Access to over $16,553 worth of HEALING CONTENT
 that your therapist isn't teaching you in psychotherapy.


Join today for a fraction of the price starting at $37/month
(Get 2 or 6 months free when you choose the 6 or 12 month subscription)
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What Members Say...


Our members have gone on to get into the healthiest relationships they've ever been in, 
getting engaged while others have saved their marriage from ending and others deciding 
that divorce was best due to unrelenting abuse.


 Cheers to the new generation of women raising their standards 
and getting into the best love affair they’ve ever known
 - starting first with themselves.

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6 YEARS
 IN BUSINESS

15k+ women served

COUNTLESS HEARTS +
GENERATIONAL TRAUMA HEALED

Content created by psychotherapist specializing in healing trauma 
after toxic relationships

COUNTLESS HEARTS
 +
GENERATIONAL TRAUMA HEALED

15+ YEARS
EXPERIENCE

15k+ women 
served

PROGRAM LED BY psychotherapist specializing in healing trauma 
after toxic relationships

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS


What Is The Inner Circle Membership?
The Loving Me After We Inner Circle membership is an online platform for women ready to end the cycle of rejection, abandonment and heartbreak so they can heal and build amazing confidence.

Inside you'll find amazing resources such as monthly master class releases targeting key areas necessary to help you heal your heart while becoming the best self-loving version of yourself. These include how to break trauma bonds, inner child healing methods, mindset, boundaries, denial vs fear vs intuition, how to heal trust and abandonment fears - AND SO MUCH MORE!

You will also connect with a supportive community in our private Facebook group exclusively for members and join me for live online group workshops with each monthly release.

How many times a month do you meet live?

Once a month and here's why.

Going into our third year, we've learned that members struggle with information overload resulting in feeling overwhelmed.   

1.  For this reason, I don't believe in overwhelming you with another meeting:  Healing can be tough, and adding another call might make you feel even more stressed out trying to keep up with everything while also taking care of yourself and handling life's other responsibilities. By having one meeting each month, we're showing you how to create a personal growth routine that models carving out a similar time for yourself to decompress and process between live workshops. 

Plus, you'll still have our supportive community to help you stay accountable, answering questions you may have along the way (even at 2am!) when you need us - with me in the group answering questions as well.  One day you won't need us (Hello! that's the goal!) and this way you choose when to do the work in between sessions.  

For three years we have had nothing short of AHHH-MAZINGGGG transformations using our framework with over 15,000 women going through the program.  

We think it works, more meetiings ≠ transformation

How is the Inner Circle different from other programs

Here's what sets us apart:

Deep Dive:  We move beyond surface-level ego-boosting fluff and focus on creating a healing plan that keeps you stuck in destructive dating patterns so that you can transform your painful relationships.

Holistic Healing: We ditch the cliché tips and one-size-fits-all formulas, and zero in on finding your true self after losing so much of it in painful relationships (by the way, our program focuses on deep transformation, not just temporary motivation by exploring the mind body connection and the impact of complex/relational trauma) and experience healing tailored to your unique relational history with your customized healing path plan.

Emotional Makeover: In our program, you'll unlock your inner wisdom instead of relying on gurus for tips and tricks.  You'll learn learn to make healthier choices as we'll guide you through facing fears, toxic shame, and messy emotions.

Lasting Transformation: Say goodbye to short-lived fixes and embrace change rooted in clinical practice and evidence-based skill-building.  Our program is founded on a strong framework designed by a psychotherapist with expertise in relational trauma, codependency, childhood trauma, complex trauma, and love addiction and achieve lasting change.

In summary, we offer a transformative journey to help you break free from toxic patterns and create amazing relationships enabling you to live the life you really want and experience lasting change.

Is The Inner Circle Membership For Me?
If you're struggling with a recent breakup, abusive/toxic relationship, codependency and want to stay on track in your journey towards healing, the Inner Circle Membership will give you the structure, accountability and guidance you need to stay focused.

If you don’t have a strong support system, my monthly guidance and our community of amazing women will help you stay on track. 

The Inner Circle Membership is for anyone who wants to stay consistent with their heart healing journey while becoming the best version of themselves — whether you’ve been reading all the latest books on narcissism or are brand-new to your healing journey.

How is The Inner Circle Membership delivered?
Everything is in the Membership portal! You just log in and can access all the masterclasses, worksheets, videos, online workshops and more. You can access the membership portal from your computer, tablet or smartphone.

What subscription plan do members usually choose?  
Our average member stays with us for 8-12 months so most choose the 6 or 12 month option to avoid a monthly payment and take advantage of the savings over the monthly plan.  If you'd like to join and check us out for a month and then upgrade, this is fine.

How much of my time will it require each month??
That’s up to you! This isn’t a course or workshop — there is no curriculum, no “homework,” no schedule.

You can listen to the workshops, masterclasses and engage the monthly challenges, read the emails and connect in the private Facebook group whenever you want, as often as you want. If you’re super busy one week or month, don’t sweat it. You can’t fall behind! 
Everyone moves at their own pace. 

The awesome thing about the Inner Circle Membership is that it makes it really easy to stay on track and work on everything needed yo heal your heart and become the best version of yourself.

What if I can’t finish all of the content each month?
It will be there waiting for you! You can go back to any masterclass, group coaching session, etc., at any time and listen/read/watch/practice whenever you want as long as you are a current member. The Inner Circle Membership gives you flexible structure. There are no rigid rules.

Is the Inner Circle Membership right for me if I am not in a relationship or desire to be in one?
Yes! The Inner Circle Membership is for anyone who has or wants to ultimately deepen their self-love, build amazing confidence and get on the journey towards conscious love -with themselves and/or others.

All you need in order to start is the desire to learn! The Inner Circle Membership gives you structure, support, inspiration and community as you begin your journey. In fact, it’s an awesome place to start thanks to the community (ask any question in the Facebook group) and the flexible structure. 


How do I cancel?
You can cancel your membership at any time from within the membership portal!  You will continue to have access until the end of your billing cycle.

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This Program is not a substitute for psychotherapy, doesn't not constitute a provider patient relationship and it is not for 
diagnosing any underlying conditions. We cannot promise or guarantee any results as each participant is solely responsible for any personal and professional growth.